Read Client Stories – Excessive Drinking
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Since 1987, the year Rhonda Lenair began offering her ministration that evolved into what is known today as the Self(s) Healing Experience™ SHE, scores of people have sent Rhonda and her late husband Barry their unsolicited letters of gratitude. Many people have expressed their desire to share their stories, and personal accounts of what they witnessed with Rhonda.
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Read Client Stories – Excessive Drinking
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Win, New Jersey
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
This seems like an appropriate time of year to say thank you for your invaluable help. My first appointment with Rhonda to address an alcohol obstruction in my life was on June 6, 2006, a day many numerologists warned would bring horrible things. For me, the opposite was true. My addiction that had gradually worsened for over 25 years ended on that day. People who seek treatment from places like AA are labeled as “recovering” for the rest of their lives. I can say with 100% certainty that I am now a non-drinker. The term “recovering” simply does not apply.
Many positive things have happened to me in 2 ½ years since my trip to Vermont. I would like to share two of them to illustrate the magnitude of your impact on my life.
My relationship with my sister has been to say the least, strained for many years. We have had many harsh words, which in my case, were often made worse by alcohol. We are now speaking on a fairly regular basis. The phone calls are no longer limited to the obligatory family communications. This is something that I never expected to happen, even after my treatment.
The second item is work related. I’ve been working in-house for a chemical manufacturing client for about two years. While they have been reasonably happy with my performance, the improvements in both quality and quantity of output have prompted them to entrust me with one of the largest site reclamation and remediation projects in their 100+ year corporate history. It is unprecedented for them to use a contractor for a project of this magnitude.
“Thank you” doesn’t even begin to express my gratitude for giving me the opportunity to meet my Self(s) through Rhonda and be healed. Know that I think of you often and always wish you well.
With best wishes,”
S.V.I., Rhode Island
“I wish to express my deepest gratitude to Rhonda for freeing me from the craving of alcohol. It has been two months since I first visited you. You are a divine gift and I am thankful to have had the opportunity to have been treated by you. The constant craving for alcohol is completely gone!! I do think about it from time to time, but the thought passes in a second. It is such a freeing process.
I never wanted to attend AA because I had known people who became dependent on attending AA and were still craving alcohol. In addition to the treatment, you accurately diagnosed the dental problems, cyst on my right groin and eye issues. I also lost 10 pounds in 2 months! I am eternally grateful!”
Jane, Massachusetts
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
Can you stand one more letter of sincere gratitude?
How different life is without alcohol! I, too, do not know what you did, but it worked! I’ve been alcohol-free for more that a year now! I couldn’t go more than one day (without drinking) before. I still go with my husband once in a while to a lounge and while he enjoys his beer, it no longer threatens me and I am perfectly happy with soda, water or anything else. I do not feel deprived. I just don’t want it anymore!
May the gratitude and love I feel in my Soul be felt by your Soul. No words can express my heartfelt thanks for saving my life, my marriage, and giving me courage to seek things that make me happy”.
Love to both,
Jim and Cyndi, Massachusetts
UPDATE
Dear Barry and Rhonda,
We are happy to share our success story with all who visit your website or read your brochure. I will also be honest with you. Before going to see Rhonda and yourself, I was skeptical and Cyndi was nervous. After our first meeting, Cyndi felt different and I was still skeptical. When we left after our last visit, we were both in awe of the entire experience and I want to say to any one reading this and thinking about going to the Lenair Self(s) Healing Center. Do it. You can go there, nervous, skeptical, doubtful, or reluctant. You will leave there healed and amazed.
Oh, if you don’t understand what the self(s) means, don’t worry you will understand after you have met Rhonda and Barry. But the word ‘Healing’ is simple to understand. It is what they are going to do for you.
Thank You,
Jim and Cyndi, Massachusetts
UPDATE
Things are going great. Cyndi is as happy as I have ever seen. Her sons have noticed the change and they now are seeing how wonderful of a person she has always been. Now they just notice it more. Your treatment is truly amazing and you have made Cyndi’s life better and inturn her 5 sons lives better and myself. I have always been a fairly mellow person and I don’t miss drinking. I feel better not drinking because she is not drinking, and I have always been in love with her, so supporting her makes our relationship stronger.
The thing that I am most amazed of is that Rhonda had discussed Cyndi’s relationship with Matthew ( our senior in high school). I don’t know how Rhonda knew about the difficulty she was having with Matt, but their relationship now has truly blossomed. He is still not the perfect teenager but her understanding and accepting of him have definitely changed. He actually came having smoked pot one day and she didn’t lose it on him. She accepted him as he is, hugged him, explained that he shouldn’t do this and that was it. The next day he was amazed by her calm way of handling the situation and because of this he became a little more critical of himself and maybe realized that smoking pot wasn’t the smartest thing to do in life. He has always been an amazing kid and now I see him being even more amazing.
My youngest son said, ” I like that you guys don’t drink anymore.”
We went to our first social event the other night. I walked in and my buddy handed me a shot. I simply said no thanks. Cyndi was very happy and she didn’t feel any urge to drink. They had even bought her favorite wine.
To summarize, Rhonda and you are truly two of the most amazing people we have ever met and your healing reaches far beyond the person you treat to everyone that they come in contact with after your treatment.
You must feel very satisfied helping people. And in this case, you have helped Cyndi, myself, Rob, Matt, Nick, Ben and Luke. We are now a truly blessed and together family.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank You,
Jim, Massachusetts
Dear Barry and Rhonda,
I understand why you have SO many thank you notes. It has only been 1 day and I am still in AWE of the entire healing process. I am experiencing physical, emotional and spiritual differences and I was not even the patient.
The results of your treatment are profound and clearly evident in my wife and she seems to be living in a significantly different state of mind and body. She has always had SO many wonderful qualities and now seems to be enjoying herself and her new found self.
When we arrived home, I witnessed four of our sons see her for the first time as her true self and without saying it they all saw her for the first time as the incredibly awesome person that she is. I did not even have to ask her as it was clear that she felt the greatest sense of pride for herself and that she was really this great mother and wife that she never fully realized.
More then the fact that I am already convinced that she will not drink again, your amazing treatment has not changed her life but restored her life. In fact, through her change, I feel that I myself am in a different place in my life.
I am sure she is sending you a very profound thank you note, but I felt the need to send you our combined thank you.
Gail, Massachusetts
Dear Rhonda and Barry,
First of all I want to thank you for giving us our lives and our son back. I thank God each day for guiding us to your door. We have been blessed with miracles and the experience of your healing is among them. I have been recommending Rhonda to anyone that wants to hear about our experience. You are truly amazing, Rhonda.
Michael is doing beautifully. He actually is a joy to be with. Other people have commented on how “healthy” he looks. He walks taller and his eyes are brighter. Most importantly, Michael knows the difference in himself. He’s working part time for his Dad, he bought a car and he is getting his driver’s license next week. So many wonderful, positive events. When Michael sees his old friends drinking it repulses him. Last week Michael had to dump out a stale beer that was left over from a friend. Michael almost couldn’t do it. He started gagging and almost puked!!! I just smiled.
Michael just spoke with Rhonda a few minutes ago. He can’t remember everything that she said. He needs a massage for his legs. Something about his back. He’s supposed to take potassium or he’s not supposed to take potassium. He needs new tires for his car (I’m not sure if this is really what was said or not- Michael was smiling as he said it………).
Thank you both again for everything. He wants to quit smoking now. You may see us again soon.
Hugs and Blessings,
Kate, Illinois
Barry and Rhonda,
I want to share with you my sincerest thank you. I came to you the Tuesday after Labor day lost in alcohol. Today, I celebrate my 8th month of no drinking. While you must get many of emails for the work you do, please understand by gratitude to you both for changing my life. If you would have asked my 8 months ago- that within the New Year I would be alcohol free (no drinking-no cravings) I would have answered with a firm no. There are still personal challenges but I face those with a clear mind and heart.
Thank you-you saved my life.
Miryam, New Mexico
“Hi Rhonda & Barry,
I am happy to say that I have not had a drink for over five months–since I came out in June.
I can barely remember the person who drank & struggled to quit so many times. Just as so many folks have reported—the craving is just gone. I feel like a slave who was granted her freedom.
My gratitude is immense & eternal to you both.
Blessings for peace & wholeness & joy,
In freedom & with love,”
James, New York
“Dear Rhonda and Barry:
I have battled an alcohol addiction for almost 30 of my 50 years on this planet. I have tried diets, AA meetings and private therapy, etc. – all of which were exercised by choice, and then when the DWI’s started, mandated by law. None of the above had worked for me and, as a matter of fact, seemed to have accelerated my consumption.
I was very skeptical about Rhonda and her technique. I searched every available avenue of information to see if I could find any fraudulent writings on her. As my addiction did not want to let go of me, this was an endless quest for me and my addiction to stay as it were. Even up to the day before my visit with Rhonda, I was looking for an excuse to not end my habit. I went alone and actually was dissuaded by friends to pursue this kind of treatment.
All I can tell you is what I tell others. In the first short session I had, I did not even know I had been affected by your treatment. All I knew that when I was done, I just wanted to get something to eat. I did not experience the shakes or the withdrawal I would normally get when approaching the 24 hour alcohol-free period. I did not even realize that I didn’t drink that first day, probably the first time in 20 years: It was as if everything was normal.
The way I express the feeling to friends is that Rhonda performs bloodless surgery. She is able to reach inside of you and remove the spiritual equivalent of a defective organ which secrets the craving bile. Suddenly, with the organ gone, there was no need to neutralize the bile with alcohol. End of story: as of May 8, 2007, it will have been 1 ½ years.
My only encounter with booze since then was an accidental drink taken at a function where all I knew was I felt something unpleasant, but what I drank did not look or taste like an alcoholic beverage. I simply continued the evening with food and that was it. The next day when I asked what that was in those small cans (which I thought was that caffeinated ‘Red Bull’) I was told it was ‘Sofia’, which is some sort of white wine concoction. White wine was my drink of choice when I was drinking. I must say it bothered me at first that some alcohol entered my system, but I had no desire to continue drinking it and I am not counting that as a ‘slip” or any such nonsense. All it was is a tribute to the successful work of Rhonda and her incredible gift.
If people shy away from this because of the inherent nature of fearing what one does not understand, then they are doing themselves a grave injustice. Rhonda is here for a reason and this skeptic (me) came to be cured and has surpassed the test.
Rhonda, thank you so much for your healing work.”